When NOT to Do a Healing Code
for Someone Else
by Diane Eble, CHCCP and editor of The Healing Code
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One of the wonderful
things about The Healing Codes is you can do them for someone else, and it is effective.
In fact, it may be even more effective than if the person does it for him or
herself, because the love that motivates you to do the Code for the person seems to greatly amplify the
Just look at the visual proof of what happened when one
loving, committed mom did Healing Codes for her then 3-year-old son who had an eye condition called
If you've never read the story on my blog of Vinny, the boy with the
inoperable brain tumor that went away after his grandmother and people reading the blog who did Healing Codes for him, please be ready to be amazed.
I regularly do Healing Codes for other people, and I’m convinced that I benefit
myself from it. There is a proverb that says those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed. When you offer
yourself as sort of a channel of healing love to flow through, you can’t help but be watered yourself.
This works in reverse, however, whenever the motivation for doing a Healing Code
for someone else is not love, but manipulation.
If you are trying to change another person, I need to warn you: Not only will the
person you’re doing a Code for NOT be healed or blessed, but it can do great damage--to you and, perhaps, to the
So if you desire to do a Healing Code for someone else, honestly check your own
motives. If there’s any hint of desperation on your part for them to heal, or desire to change them, do not do a
Healing Code for the other person.
Instead, do the Healing Code for yourself, on your own desperation, control
issues, or whatever is going on in that relationship. (The Relationship Codes might be especially helpful here. You can take the Relationship Issues Finder first, then use the proper Code to address the
After doing your own Healing Code, you may certainly release the healing to the other
person, saying, “I release the effects of this healing to [name], in love, insofar as this issue affects
That is the best, most effective, and safest way to do a Healing Code for someone
else when you can’t do it out of pure motives.